11 Stories of Couples Who Found Lasting Love in Arranged Marriages

Arranged marriages vs love marriage is one of the hottest topics of debate and discussion. We feel your conundrum if you or someone you know is new to the marriage market! 

Well, contrary to popular belief, arranged marriages are not as old school as they are made out to be. In this blog, we have compiled stories of real-life couples who have discovered genuine love through an arranged setup. What fascinates us most about love in arranged marriages is that these relationships might stem from initial formality but they blossom into lasting love over time.

Real Arranged Marriage Stories Share By People

Arranged marriages might sound very conventional but love can bloom in them and how. Here are 15 real-life stories that go in to show how love in arranged marriages isn't just true but beautiful as well:

• “I was in two minds about the idea of arranged marriage, but, as fate would have it, me and Arjun agreed to meet through our families. When we met, the conversation flowed effortlessly and both of us approached the situation with an open mind. The conversation bloomed from a shared love for coffee and travel, and soon, we were finishing each other’s sentences! Sounds cheesy but it is true! Finally, both of us realised that this “arranged” connection was far deeper than what we had expected.”- Sakshi Jain, homemaker. 

• “We were neighbours as kids. Over the years, as our families moved, we lost touch until a meeting was set up by our families. At the onset, it was a bit awkward but soon, we started reminiscing about our school days. Soon, nostalgia took over and we couldn't help but feel that the universe had orchestrated this meeting for us! That is how our happily ever after started!- Ria and Robin Juneja

• “Ria was an introvert who liked books, while I was an extrovert who was the life of every party. At our first meeting, we were instantly taken by the charm of each other’s personality despite our differences. Somehow, we both complemented each other and brought out the best in each other. A few months later we got married and now, we have a beautiful son as well. Life is beautiful and I feel so blessed!”- Raunaq Singh

• “After a series of failed relationships, I agreed to an arranged marriage meeting with Aditya. I was very reluctant at first but Aditya’s calm and easygoing nature just made me feel so comfortable. Soon, we started talking and chatting for hours and slowly, a beautiful connection blossomed. We both completed each other and this year we are all set to celebrate our 15th anniversary.”- Suhani Singh

• “I was a teacher in Mumbai and Raj was a doctor in LA. When both of us were made to meet each other, the idea of making long-distance work intimidated us. But as we began talking, our bond grew deeper and the distance truly made the heart grow fonder. On Valentine’s Day, Raj flew in for a surprise visit, and I couldn't hold back my tears. As of now, two distant worlds have become one and we both are living the dream.”- Arsheya Dhandha

• “I was almost ready to give up on the idea of an arranged marriage when I met Rahul. Our first meeting was in fact, all about mocking the idea of an arranged marriage set-up but as they say, love can blossom in strange places. We clicked instantly and have been together for 3 years now.”- Tina Singhania 

• “We were set up for a meeting by the spiritual head of our families. Just like a true Bollywood movie scenario, we were made to meet in a temple amidst the holy chants and the sound of bells. Both of us were deeply spiritual and naturally, the conversation gravitated toward the divine intervention that got both of us together. The alignment of our values is what got us together and this is how our love blossomed.”- Srishti and Karan Jaitwani

• “I had been looking for a groom through the arranged marriage set up for almost two years and naturally, I was starting to feel mentally and emotionally exhausted. When I met Vikas, instantly I could feel a spark. As we talked, our bond grew and became stronger. Patience, it seemed, had finally paid off and I had found the love I deserved.”- Priya Srivastav

• “I am an independent working woman, and the idea of sharing my space with someone terrified me. I had categorical inhibitions about someone interfering with my professional dreams but all my doubts were debunked when I met Rohan.  He didn't just support my ambitions but also encouraged me to dream bigger. It didn't take long for both of us to realise that they loved each other.”- Anika Singh

• “My first engagement had ended and the heartbreak devastated me. When I met Aarav, I found a friend who understood my scars and helped me heal with love and patience. Soon, he became my safe space and together, we set forth on a journey of happiness.”- Tara Singhania

• “We were never keen on settling through an arranged setup. But when our families insisted on a meeting, we were surprised by how naturally the conversation flowed. It felt like we had met at the perfect time in their lives, both ready for the love that was going to follow.”- Ishaan and Neha Sigh

Conclusion

In a world where dating apps and opportunist romances reign supreme, arranged marriage stories seem too good to be true. These heartwarming stories embody the proof that love isn't always complicated and that you don't have to endure a saga to find your happy place. One of our biggest takeaways is that out of all the advantages of arranged marriages, their connection to our roots, family values, and tradition makes this a very cushioned approach to finding your life partner. It feels as if you are not left alone to test the waters and find your partner but luck, destiny, and blessings from your parents all convene to help you find true love. 

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FAQs 

1. How common are arranged marriages today?

Arranged marriages are pretty common today. With the advent of mindless dating, people are getting frustrated, confused, and highly dissatisfied with their romantic lives. Arranged marriages help them experience some semblance of stability and sanity while looking for a life partner. The arranged marriage stories mentioned above are proof of the same. 

2. Do arranged marriages have a higher success rate than love marriages?

We think that marriages are written in stars and the success or failure of any relationship is depicted by a twist of fate, which can confront anyone. 

3. What are some common challenges faced by couples in arranged marriages?

Some common challenges faced by couples in arranged marriages are:

• Lack of shared experiences to talk about at first 
• Initial formality 
• Lack of enthusiasm at the onset