Beginner's Vibrator Guide: What Kind of Toy Is Right for You?

Welcome, curious souls, to the feel-good realm of vibrators! If you're a beginner dipping your toes into the vast ocean of pleasure, fret not, for we've got your back (and, ahem, your front as well!). 

In this comprehensive guide, we'll unravel the mysteries, debunk the myths, and navigate the stimulating world of vibrators. These powerful devices hold the power to revolutionise both solo and partnered play! From discreet bullet vibrators that fit snugly into your handbag to cutting-edge wonders controlled by smartphone apps, the arena for exploration is endless. Before you get overwhelmed by these possibilities, know that no matter how funky the shape is or how abstract it might look, vibrators broadly fall under 7 categories. Once you learn about them and how they work, you will be better equipped and more empowered to choose what works best for you. Buckle up for a wild ride!

7 DIFFERENT KINDS OF VIBRATORS (AND HOW TO USE THEM)

1. MINI/ BULLET VIBRATOR: A timeless favourite, this small and discreet vibrator is perfect for beginners. It's simple and minimal design offers focused clitoral stimulation and easy manoeuvrability, making it an ideal starting point. Its user-friendly design ensures that even if you're new to the realm of self-exploration, you'll feel at ease from the moment you switch it on. Its intuitive controls allow you to effortlessly adjust the intensity, so you can find the perfect setting that resonates with your desires. 

Tip: Experiment with different areas of your body to discover what brings you the most pleasure. Try circular motions, back-and-forth movements, play around with the settings to find the speed and  pattern that resonates with your pleasure — it’s a simple, compact and intuitive device to use.

2. CLITORAL SUCTION VIBRATORS: This innovative toy uses gentle suction and pulsation to mimic the sensation of oral stimulation on the clitoris. It's a beginner-friendly option for intense and unique pleasure without direct contact. The device typically consists of a small, handheld unit with a silicone head or nozzle that encloses the clitoris. When activated, the suction stimulator creates a gentle vacuum around the clitoral area, mimicking the sensation of oral stimulation.

Tip: If you want to take things to the next level, go ahead and use a clitoral suction vibrator together with a G-spot vibrator for absolutely earth-shattering orgasms. Using two toys together can be incredibly fun because they enable a multitude of simultaneous sensations, while still allowing utmost control over when and where you want what. Unlike a dual action toy like a rabbit, which would need to be inserted into the vagina at the get go in order to position the rabbit ears against the clit, when you use two separate toys – a clit stimulator, and a G-zone vibrator – you can start with the clit stimulator and then add in the insertable vibrator AFTER you’re very aroused from the clit stimulation. Trust us, using two toys together is some next level stuff!

3. WAND VIBRATOR: Known for their powerful vibrations, wand vibrators (often shaped like a microphone)  offer broad stimulation and can be used on various erogenous zones. Beginners can enjoy the versatility of a wand vibrator, as you can experience the joys of their rumbling sensations against the vulva often without even having to take off your pants.

Tip: There’s no wrong way to play with a wand vibrator! Have fun exploring areas of your body, from the clitoris to other sensitive zones like nipples or the perineum.

4. G-SPOT VIBRATOR: Let’s get one thing straight. There is no separate structure or bump or button to look for inside the vagina, called the “G-spot”. Recent scientific research shows that what was thought of as the ‘G-spot’ is, in fact, not a specific separate organ or gland at all — the walls of the vaginal canal, particularly the anterior or upper wall,  are simply a sensitive region. The G-spot is therefore an erogenous zone, not a distinct physical structure. G-spot vibrators would thus perhaps best be rechristened G-zone vibrators. They are essentially intended for internal vaginal stimulation, and often have a curved shape to target the sensitive upper wall  and provide an enjoyable experience similar to penetration. What’s great is that you get to control all the movements! 

Tip: Don’t skimp on the lube! Use a lube that suits your preferences and is compatible with your toy for any kind of penetrative play. It will make everything super slippery and super fun.  Internal stimulation without lube can be rather uncomfortable – trust us, lube is the unsung hero of more pleasurable, more comfortable playtime, especially for penetrative toys or partnered activity. Water-based lube is compatible with all toys and condoms, but dries quickly. Silicone based lube requires less reapplication and is compatible with condoms (condoms often come pre-lubricated with silicone based lube in fact)  however, it can sometimes degrade silicone toys over time, as silicone can break down silicone. Oil based lubes are incredibly slick and luscious and can be great for self love and massage. They are compatible with certain silicone toys, as well as glass and steel toys, but are not compatible with materials like latex, polyisoprene, or TPE. As any lube connoisseur will attest, it can be really fun to have all three kinds of lube, really understand what types of play each is most compatible for, and use different ones for different activities, as each has its own unique pleasure possibilities.

5. RABBIT VIBRATORS: Why just stimulate one erogenous zone when you can stimulate two at once? With this device, you can achieve what is called “blended orgasms” aka orgasms achieved from the simultaneous engagement of the clitoris and the internal erogenous zones. Rabbit vibrators typically feature two main components: a shaft for internal penetration and a smaller attachment, often shaped like rabbit ears, for clitoral stimulation. 

Tip: Find a comfortable position and gently insert the shaft of the Rabbit vibrator into your vagina, allowing the bunny ears to rest against your clitoris. Then, let the experimentation with speed and intensity begin!

6. APP-CONTROLLED VIBRATORS: These innovative toys allow you or your partner to control the vibrations, patterns, and intensities using a smartphone, adding a new level of excitement and exploration. They typically connect to a smartphone via Bluetooth or Wi-Fi, allowing for seamless control and customisation of the vibrator's settings. They’re especially great for couples in long distance relationships! Your partner could control the settings via an app even if they’re in a different place than you, allowing for some very innovative and fun long-distance intimacy.

Tip: Some app controlled vibrators have incredible interactive features, such as syncing vibrations to music! You’re sure to have a blast using them!

7. WEARABLE VIBRATORS: If you and your partner are looking to spice up your foreplay, wearable vibrators can be a lot of fun.These devices are designed to either be worn on or inserted inside the body. They come in a variety of shapes and designs,from small and sleek panty vibrators to vibrating rings  for those with penises. Vibrating strap ons are another category of wearable vibrators, that are essentially vibrating dildos attached to a wearable harness. Strap-ons are an especially popular choice among lesbian couples who enjoy penetrative play.

Tip: Not sure where to start with wearable toys? A finger vibrator might be the easiest  bet. They are typically small, discreet, and shaped to fit comfortably on your finger like a ring or sleeve. Finger vibrators are great for stimulating erogenous zones with precision.

BEFORE YOU BUY A VIBRATOR… 
Now that you know what kind of vibrators are on the market, it’s time to decide which one is actually going to be your soulmate, your ride-or-die on your pleasure quest. Here’s a list of questions that will help you zero in on the right vibrator for you: 

What’s my masturbation style?
Pick one that suits your vibe best. Do you only stimulate the clit? Go for a clitoral suction vibrator. All about fingering? Then pick a G-spot or a wearable vibrator. Enjoy both sensations? Opt for a dual massager like the Rabbit vibrator.  

Does size really matter?
Maybe. Maybe not. That lies entirely on you. If you're a beginner or prefer more targeted stimulation, we’d recommend a smaller-sized vibrator. If you're experienced and desire a fuller sensation, a larger-sized vibrator may be more suitable. 

What material should I look out for?
Always check if the vibrators are body-safe and easy to clean. Common materials include silicone, which is hypoallergenic and body-safe, as well as ABS plastic, metal, or even glass. 

How much should I pay for a vibrator?
Vibrators can range in price from budget-friendly options to higher-end models with advanced features. Think of durability, quality, and the features that are most important to you when buying a vibrator. Remember, a higher price doesn't always guarantee a better experience, so choose a vibrator that fits within your budget and meets your needs.

Ultimately, choosing the right vibrator is a personal decision. Consider your preferences, desires, and comfort level when selecting a vibrator that aligns with your needs. Take your time to explore different options, and don't be afraid to experiment and discover what brings you the most pleasure.