10 Most Stupid Myths About Sex We All Believed

Come, let’s talk about one of the most intriguing mysteries that has everyone rolled around its little finger and how: Sex! However, it might be fun to know that it isn’t just about the act or what happens between the sheets but about a whole wide world of pleasure, connection, and self-discovery.

Some people like it slow and romantic, others love a little adventure and kink, while most of us are just figuring out what feels good. And guess what? Everything is “normal”. The discussion about sex is all about what works for YOU. In this blog, we will touch upon 10 of the most common myths about sex and debunk them! 

Importance Of Understanding The Myths And Facts About Sex

Well, sex is everywhere! In movies, music, and conversations. Yet, for something so common, most people aren’t actually talking about it in an honest way. Myths, unrealistic expectations, jokes and misinformation make it harder for people to navigate their own sexuality with confidence. Here is why understanding the common myths and facts about sex is so important.

• Our culture and depiction of sex makes it seem like sex is spontaneous, effortless, and flawless, but it includes awkward moments and a constant learning of what works for you.

• So many people get their understanding about sex through porn. Instead, one should indulge in open, judgment-free discussions which can add value to their understanding of sex. After all, it’s always the miscommunication about sex that leads to unrealistic expectations while fueling myths about sex. 

• Knowing the facts and myths about sex doesn’t just improve relationships but also helps you manage STIs, unplanned pregnancies etc. 

13 Common Sex Myths And The Truth Behind Them

Here are a few misconceptions about sex that should be debunked:

Myth 1: Oral sex is totally safe.

Truth: While oral sex won’t cause pregnancy, it can still make you come in contact with sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like herpes, gonorrhea, and syphilis. Therefore, doing oral sex without protection and still being okay with it is one of the greatest myths about oral sex. 

Myth 2: You can know if someone has an STI just by looking at them.

Truth: Many STIs don’t show any obvious symptoms. The only way you can be sure about it is through regular testing.

Myth 3: Condoms make sex less enjoyable.

Truth: That is one of the biggest myths about sex. Condoms come in various styles that are thoughtfully designed for pleasure. Sex with condoms is just as enjoyable as without! In fact, when you use protection, it can also protect you from STIs and unplanned pregnancies.

Myth 4: Doing sex during periods can keep you from getting pregnant.

Truth: This is also a common sex myth. As a matter of fact, sperm can survive inside of the body for days. This can give pregnancy a chance whenever ovulation happens.

Myth 5: Pulling out before ejaculation can prevent pregnancy.

Truth: Pre-cum can pick up sperm in the urethra and there is always a probability that the pull-out method may become unreliable due to its timing. With the pull out method, there is a failure rate of up to 30%.

Myth 6: When you have sex standing up, you will not get pregnant.

Truth: Gravity can not stop sperm from reaching an egg. Unprotected vaginal sex will always warrant a risk of pregnancy.

Myth 7: Sex can burn a ton of calories.

Truth: While sex burns some calories, so many people won’t engage in sex long enough for it to be a reliable weight-loss method.

Myth 8: Women can always orgasm from vaginal sex.

Truth: More often than not, women will need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. This is why vaginal sex alone is not always enough.

Myth 9: Only gay men can get HIV.

Truth: Anyone, irrespective of their gender, who is sexually active can contract HIV. 

Myth 10: HIV can spread through all bodily fluids.

Truth: HIV can only be transmitted through blood, semen, vaginal secretions, and breast milk. It is not transferred through saliva, urine, or tears.

Myth 11: Anal and oral sex are safe alternatives to vaginal sex.

Truth: While anal and oral sex don’t lead to pregnancy, both can still spread STIs.

Myth 12: You can always rely on your partner to provide condoms.

Truth: Safe sex is a shared responsibility. Therefore, having condoms with you which are unexpired, and stored correctly is a couple’s responsibility and not just a man’s.

Myth 13: If you’re aroused, you will not need a lubricant.

Truth: Arousal doesn’t equal lubrication. There are so many factors like hormones, medications, stress etc., that can affect natural moisture. Therefore, having a water-based like Leezu’s Love Jelly is a great addition to your intimate routine. 

Parting Words

A strong foundation of sexual knowledge helps people make informed choices and gain confidence as regards to their sexuality. It is also true that what works for one person may not work for another. The more we normalize real conversations about sex, and debunk unsubstantiated myths to demarcate between sex myths and facts; less shame and uncertainty people will feel.

So, come along and let us ditch the myths about sex with Leezu’s and start conversations about real sex! Talking about sex, we have to mention all the exciting things that Leezu’s has to offer to enrich your intimate counters. From Leezu’s Love Bug, couple intimate gifts  to other amazing self-love products you have got an excellent array of sex toys to explore and experiment with! 

Frequently Asked Questions On Misconceptions About Sex

• Can doing sex make you younger?

No. Sex won't help with reverse ageing, but it can surely help you feel young at heart. To add to the fun, you can explore Leezu’s range of online intimate gifts to make your sex life super fun and exciting. 

• What is the most reliable source of information to debunk myths about sex?

While so many of us get our primary exposure to sex through porn and pop culture references, the best way to dissipate myths about sex is to talk to your parents, teachers (someone trustworthy) or read all about it from a reliable source like Leeza Mangaldas’s The Sex Book. Once you are well versed with the ins and outs of physical intimacy, Leezu’s offers many fabulous naughty gifts for him and naughty gifts for her to give wings to your intimate exploration. 

• What is the most common myth about oral sex?

When it comes to debunking one of the most common myths about oral sex, we have to address the notion where many people believe that sexually transmitted diseases can only be transferred through penetrative sex. However, that is completely false. Unprotected oral sex can also be the cause of STIs. 

• What is the most common myth about anal sex?

Well, many people believe that anal sex will always hurt and cause pain. But, going slow, using plenty of water based lube and keeping yourself relaxed can make anal sex far less painful and far more enjoyable.